{"id":7965,"date":"2023-09-07T12:54:10","date_gmt":"2023-09-07T12:54:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shareperformanceinsight.com\/index.php\/2023\/09\/07\/what-nelson-mandela-and-john-madden-taught-this-nfl-coach-about-leadership\/"},"modified":"2023-09-07T12:54:10","modified_gmt":"2023-09-07T12:54:10","slug":"what-nelson-mandela-and-john-madden-taught-this-nfl-coach-about-leadership","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shareperformanceinsight.com\/index.php\/2023\/09\/07\/what-nelson-mandela-and-john-madden-taught-this-nfl-coach-about-leadership\/","title":{"rendered":"What Nelson Mandela and John Madden taught this NFL coach about leadership"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      Here are his thoughts on leadership which have been lightly edited for clarity:  <\/p>\n<h2 class=\"subheader\">    On what makes a good leader<\/h2>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>Poppy Harlow: <\/strong>What does real leadership mean to you?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>Ron Rivera:<\/strong> There are so many great examples out there of it, you know, from people like Nelson Mandela. I mean, just listening and reading to the things that he has said and wrote. There\u2019s a lot of great examples. Be the leader that you would follow.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH: <\/strong>What did Nelson Mandela teach you?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> More so than anything else is that you have to set the example. You have to, and then you\u2019ve got to be committed and you\u2019ve got to be willing to sacrifice. You know, I mean, he went to prison because he believed in something. And if you don\u2019t believe in something that, that so much that you\u2019re willing to go to prison, then maybe you\u2019re not a great leader.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> You have said that you rely on this mantra: focus on what\u2019s important, not, what\u2019s interesting. Why?   <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> At the end of the day, what\u2019s more important than the people you\u2019re working with? So I like to focus on them. You know, there\u2019s a great saying that says leadership is not about you, but it will start with you. And so, I\u2019ve got to set the example and then I\u2019ve got to follow up on it. And it\u2019s hard to follow up all the time. I mean, every now and then, you got, you try to compromise, you try to work it out. But at the end of the day, you have to stick to your guiding principles.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> What about accountability in leadership? Do great leaders point to others when things go wrong or do they look into themselves?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> I think great leaders start with themselves. First and foremost, they\u2019re the ones that will stand up and say, \u201cHey, that\u2019s on me. I\u2019ve got to be better at it.\u201d You know one of the great lessons I learned from Andy Reid [Kansas City Chiefs coach], more so than anything else, is that it always starts with you. From the very beginning, it always starts with you. And then John Madden, who I reached out to and he became a mentor for me, said to me, he said, \u201cRon, one thing that you\u2019ve got to understand is you can delegate the authority, but if you haven\u2019t set the standard, if you haven\u2019t told your coaches what you want and it\u2019s not what you want, whose fault is that? Yours.\u201d  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> And that\u2019s what John Madden taught you?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> Exactly. It\u2019s that, I have to make sure that I\u2019m crystal clear that this is what I want. And at the end of the day, it\u2019s not. Then that falls back on me first.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> What are the three things you tell your players they control in this life?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> Oh, they control their attitude, their preparation, their effort. I call it their inner APE: attitude, preparation, effort. To me, first and foremost, the way you approach things, the way you do things, your attitude towards things, it sets the tone for everything else you do. The better prepared you are, the better you are to handle things. And then if you give them great effort, the type of effort it gives you a chance, then you can be successful.  <\/p>\n<h2 class=\"subheader\">    On leading through adversity\/negativity<\/h2>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> You have been leading this team through so many negative headlines. How have those three things played into really what has been the last few seasons?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> It\u2019s been, you know, it\u2019s been hard. But the mantra of pay attention to what\u2019s important, not what\u2019s interesting. For us, the important thing is as professional athletes, is preparation to play the game. You know, got a tremendous amount of respect for all of the things that go on because they are very important social issues, business issues, work issues. But what we do is football. And so, as football players, as a football team, let\u2019s focus in on playing the game. And I always tell them, let me handle the other stuff, the interesting things.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH: <\/strong>What do you think makes a good team great?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> I think having a sustainable winning culture. You know, you look at what Andy Reid has done, you look at what Bill Belichick [New England Patriots coach] has done, you know, guys like Sean Payton [Denver Broncos coach] who have had these long tenures as head coaches that have won championships. You know, Tom Coughlin, what he did in New York, that\u2019s because they built a culture that can sustain the time and you can win, over time with that group of people. And that\u2019s what you strive for. That\u2019s what you work for.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH: <\/strong>So greatness comes from culture, not just skill?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> Absolutely. I think it\u2019s culture. It\u2019s character. It\u2019s a team being more like a family where you can rely on, you can trust on, you can be accountable to. I think you\u2019ve got to create a positive culture that is built through character.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> You were brought in by the previous owner, Dan Snyder, and he told you, \u201cI need you to come in here and change the culture in my organization.\u201d  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> Yes, he did. And let me work at it, and let me do the things that, you know, could hopefully get us going in the right direction. And I think we\u2019re right close to where we need to be.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> Can one person, can a coach really change the culture of a whole organization?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> Not by himself. I mean, you have to be able to have the right people in place. You have to work with the right people around you. And you also, at the same time, have to make some very difficult decisions, tough decisions and decisions that impact people and families. But at the same time to be able to get to where you want to go, you\u2019ve got to make those decisions and those sacrifices and commitment.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH: <\/strong>What is the most difficult decision you made trying to change the culture of this organization? You said you have to make difficult decisions that impact players and families. What does that mean? What did you do?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR: <\/strong>Well, there\u2019s some players that you, you know, you have to let go either because it\u2019s their career is coming to an end or they don\u2019t fit what, what you do, or how you do it. You know, sometimes you got to make coaching changes. And again, those are all things that come back to me because, those are.  <\/p>\n<h2 class=\"subheader\">    On using your platform for good<\/h2>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> One thing that I\u2019m struck by is how central to moral issues and social issues professional sports are, particularly football. And you\u2019ve talked about it as being surprising to you, that professional football, for example, has really become the center of so many of these social involved conversations. Why is that surprising to you?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> Well, back when I played, it was always initially, it was always about, you know, we stayed out of the limelight. Our focus was playing the game. And I remember when Charles Barkley used to say, and I think, you know, he\u2019s right \u2013 you know, we shouldn\u2019t be the one raising your kids.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> Well, what do you think now?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> It\u2019s interesting because what I\u2019ve learned is, especially when you watch, you know, somebody like a LeBron James step up to the forefront, do what he does and attack the social issues, that to me is impressive. I mean, you know, Megan Rapinoe being somebody that bring attention to so many social issues and made me realize now that I was wrong to think that way because now we have a platform and, if we present the platform properly, we can help \u2013 help with change. We can help with making things better or correct. And that\u2019s kind of why I feel, now, is that I have an opportunity to help impact cancer funding and research.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH: <\/strong>You and especially the players have these platforms. Is it not just an opportunity to speak out on these issues, but is it an obligation?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> I think it is. Because we are put on, on a platform giving an opportunity that, that again, we have to be very careful and very diligent with what we\u2019re saying, what we\u2019re doing, you know, because so many people do look at us now.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH:<\/strong> During the controversy over kneeling, during what I\u2019ll call the NFL\u2019s kneeling-flag controversy, you went and re-read the Constitution and the Bill of Rights, in the middle of all of that. Why?   <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR:<\/strong> So we were going to sign Eric Reid, and he was one of the guys that, in San Francisco, he knelt with Colin Kaepernick. And so, I wanted to make sure I understood. And so, I went back and I re-read the Constitution and the Bill of Rights. And it\u2019s interesting because the whole idea that, you know, we\u2019re allowed to do certain things, we\u2019re allowed to protest is a God given right as an American, right? And as an American citizen, you\u2019re entitled to those things. So I wanted to understand. And then the more I read and the more I looked at things, the more I begin to realize, that this was not about the flag. This was, they\u2019re not denigrating the flag, or the military, what they were was they were trying to bring attention to bad policing, unfair policing, Injustice.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>PH<\/strong><strong>: <\/strong>Did it help you understand your players better?  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\">      <strong>RR: <\/strong>Yes, it did. It really did. And it made me realize, you know, that, again, if we really are going to be a free society, then we have to truly understand it. I mean, I have no issues with the Second Amendment because of the right to own guns. It is an American right. But I think the concern and thing is let\u2019s make sure we have gun education, gun safety. I mean, let\u2019s, let\u2019s make sure that when we do things, we\u2019re doing things for the right reasons because we truly understand, you know, what our laws are, what our Constitution says we\u2019re entitled to, what the Bill of Rights protects.  <\/p>\n\n<div>This post appeared first on cnn.com<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are his thoughts on leadership which have been lightly edited for clarity: On what makes a good leader Poppy Harlow: What does real leadership mean to you? Ron Rivera: There are so many great examples out there of it, you know, from people like Nelson Mandela. 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